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    Thursday 18 June 2009

    Incest

    While studying in library today my friend joined my table. We started to talk about his new car and moved on to current events. He made an interesting comment about Malaysia's problem of incest rape cases. He mentioned that in his country this is unheard of. True enough. In Chinese society it is a very very rare thing to happen. Almost unheard of too. This reminds me of all the Malaysia news paper articles I have read in the past.

    Every month or so, sure enough there will be a case of incest rape case. It is a very disturbing thought. Disgusting actually. Why would any uncle rape his own niece let alone a father rape his own daughter? This is so disgusting and inhuman. Friend said in their religion there is this teaching. Incest is prohibited. The story goes like this: In the ancient time, some where in the middle of desert in Arab. There was a camel that gave birth to a young camel. They were separated since then. After a few years, the owners of these 2 camels came together and tried to mate them. Till later on one of the camels realize they were mother and son. The camels went off and killed the owners for doing such things. This is trying to imply that even animals know it is not right to do so. What more about us humans?

    It is just plain crazy for people to do such things to their close family relatives. I really would like to pray over their head and have a look at their brain and see what are they thinking!!! Some of these men had very normal happy childhood without any abuse as a kid. So possible reason as a bad childhood lead to abnormal behaviour.


    Recent cases in the news:

    Wed May 13 2009
    Man Charged with killing one daughter and raping another.
    GEORGE TOWN: A 40-year-old odd-job worker was charged with the murder of a daughter five years ago — and with committing incest with another daughter in February.
    Incest is punishable under Section 376B of the Penal Code with a jail term of between six and 20 years and with whipping.

    * 6-20 years of jail ONLY????? Isn't that too little ??? It means under super great condition that man will only go to jail be lock up for 6 years?

    Friday May 28 2009
    Lorry driver nabbed for raping daughter over 4 years
    SEREMBAN: A 52-year-old lorry driver has been arrested for allegedly raping his 16-year-old daughter over the past four years.The heinous crime was uncovered when the girl’s mother found stains she suspected to be semen on her daughter’s panties at their home in Paroi, near here, on April 8.

    May 6 2009
    JOHOR BARU: A 46-year-old lorry driver was reprimanded by a Sessions Judge for apparently flip-flopping between pleading guilty and not guilty to raping his underage daughter.

    Monday August 11 2008
    Man held for raping 3 year-old.
    SANDAKAN: A stepfather was arrested for allegedly raping his three-year-old stepdaughter.

    * ok... this is getting more and more crazy. 3 years old??? What kind of sexual fantasy that man has??? Sick!

    * Came across this article suddenly and came by the title and I am in a state of bewilderment about it..........

    Monday September 1 2008
    " Elderly have needs too"

    SOCIETY should not look down on senior citizens who want to remarry as this perception may suppress them from fulfilling their needs and even lead them to commit incest, reported Metro Ahad.

    Men’s health expert Dr Mohd Ismail Tambi said this negative impression must be changed immediately to encourage senior citizens to lead better lifestyles.

    “We don’t criticise the young when they get married but when a 60-year-old man ties the knot, we look upon it with prejudice,” he said, adding that a person still had needs to fulfil regardless of age.

    “It is also dangerous if desire is suppressed as it can lead to unwanted situations,” said Ambrin.

    He explained that male senior citizens might find alternative ways to satisfy their needs if they no longer had a partner and this may lead to sexual crimes.

    * SOCIETY should not look down on senior citizens who want to remarry as this perception may suppress them from fulfilling their needs and even lead them to commit incest????

    ok..... so this article is trying to say that if old grandpa is not allowed to remarry some sexy young chick to fulfill his 'desire'. Your poor little grand-daughters, nieces, young female relatives will be in danger of being raped???

    A man has needs t be fulfilled regardless of age?? Men's health expert is totally trying to say that woman is viewed as a sexual need reliever in this terms. A 60 years old man who can he marry?? A 50 years old woman? No. Usually will be age from 20-30, since 40 years old woman will be consider old. And normal woman around that age will be nearing menopause their sexual drive will be reduced too. So... just from this view, a 60 years old man will usually marry someone who is 20-30 if they ever remarry for their 'needs'. But sure enough they will past away long before these woman turns old. What if this 60 year old man father even more children? Who is going to take care ? The old man's son or grandson??? It is ridiculous. It will up set the whole society for a grandpa to have a son same age as his grand son. It is socially disturbing. And what about the young widow? WHo is going to raise and take care of them??? It totally defeated the meaning of marriage.

    Old man marrying for their 'needs'. Old woman which more fitting as a life partner and company is not suitable as sexually unavailable. Young woman will lead to a lot of social problems and family troubles too. In the end, I think this is a ridiculous idea to suggest to the public. A old man have had his life time and chances for experiences. If he is a proper old man with family and grand children. He should have the mentality to be mature enough , face the reality and act according to his age and position. An elder in the family sets example and give advice. Life is not all about sex all the time. He can join others and do a lot of activities too. Don't tell me that to fulfill his needs he will be having sex whole day long since he is retired and reproduce more kids? For who to care after he past away within a few years time.

    Very weird article to be published.

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