Female Blogger Dilemma ( sharing)

Came across this I just couldn't help agreeing more with it.

Female blogger dilemma

from: xiaxue

If you are anonymous - you must be a fat ugly loser in real life.

If you show your identity and you look ugly - You should do plastic surgery.

If you show your identity and you already did plastic surgery - you are fake and disgusting.

If you are au-natural and pretty - you are still fake coz you put make-up, or must photoshop your pictures.

If you are pretty and don't put make up - it's because you don't know how. Also, you look boring and pale.

If you are pretty and put make up - you are superficial, insecure and shallow. Go save a whale.

If you get popular - you are a famewhore.

If you don't get popular - you are a nobody.

If you get popular and earn money from being popular - you are a sell-out.

If you get popular but don't earn money - you are stupid, and also, who you think you are, so bloody high and mighty?

If you are single and not dating - something's wrong with you.

If you are single and dating - you are a slut.

If you are attached - your boyfriend is either ugly or too good for you.

If you are married - you are a boring housewife.

If you are married with kids - why the fuck are you blogging when you should be looking after your kids? You are a shit mom.

If your partner is rich - you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is poor - you are a unrealistic romantic and if you break up with him for someone who works later on, you are a gold-digger.

If your partner is nice - Don't know what he sees in you.

If your partner is a jerk - You are a moron for dating him in the first place but you deserve no better anyway.

If you keep your life private - you have something to hide and you are a liar.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is sad - What a loser.

If you don't keep your life private and your life is fab - What a show off.

If you don't speak your mind - you are stupid, apathetic and unopinionated.

If you speak your mind - you are ignorant and talking about things you don't know about. You should shut up.

If you are fat - that's the only thing you are. That and disgusting.

If you are skinny - You must be anexoric or bulimic. Also you are making other women feel fat and thus spreading unhealthy weight ideals.

If you are of average weight - You are fat.

If you don't respond to haters - Means what they said must be true and you have nothing to say.

If you respond nicely to haters - They will just have more ammunition and hate you more.

If you respond rudely to haters - You cannot take criticism and you are a cyberbully.




Overall... You just can't win!!

Well.....well....well.........this is the general truth and I can think up of a few more nasty stuff to say but speaking my mind and giving my opinion under such categorization it may mean:

I am a show off, know it all and narcissistic bitch who is revolving only around her own little world that's ranking about her own " the frog in the well" view of life.

Haha... what do you think???

Disney Cartoon and My fav. Donald Duck, Chip and Dale.

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Donald Duck's Christmas

I cam across all these cute old time Disney cartoons on youtube and very very delighted over it. Felt quite sad as Disney announced that they will no longer be producing any Fairy tales and any old time movies related to Christmas anymore. The excuse is nobody can think of any good ideas for Christmas movies. Isn't that sad???? -_-.............Sigh........................

Anyway, so let's have a trip down the memory lane and have a nostalgic time with Donald duck and Chip n Dale. I just love them all. So so cute and adorable. I especially in love with those delicious looking food stuff in the cartoon. Hot pancakes with maple syrups, steamy pop corns, roasted chicken, nuts, puddings, cakes....oh...U name it. Ok. I am getting hungry. Ha.

I guess watching old time cartoon is a good way to release stress. I grew up watching all these cartoons. It brings back really wonderful childhood memories.

Donald's Vacation (Disney 1940)

Donald Duck: Three for Breakfast HQ

Donald Duck - Out of Scale

My oh my Favourite Donald Duck cartoon!! Those out of scale houses are so so cute!!!!!!!!! I just love it.

Donald Duck - Corn Chips VF HQ

Donald Duck - Applecore

Ok. This is about it. I simply can't wait for the holidays to start and run around looking at all the Christmas decorations in town and Shopping！！ My house-mate can tell you I almost and really got bored to death in this sleepy old town out in the rural rural area. There is nothing bad about this place, it is peaceful and quiet with occasional accidents and deaths around ( as usual, the typical scandals in sleepy old towns.). It is just a bit too...life-less. Maybe it is just not the life I am used to. I miss the technology and vibe of city life. Personally I enjoy a simple not so active life style. I love to read....here no book store that really sell any books. I love Japanese and Korean food....here............hard to find any. The list goes on and on the more I think about it the more depressed I got to be. Even though these are material stuff but that's the life I know. My pda phone spoil t and...........there is no service center around here. Sob. -_-..........So to cheer oneself up, watch some happy cartoons and drown myself in old memories.

Classic Christmas Cartoon and Good Old Fashioned Cartoons with meaningful storyline .

Seriously I have no idea about what's today's cartoon trying to tell the kids. Isn't it suppose to pass on messages about how to be a good responsible person. All those good values about life and morals? I don't see any of that in today's cartoons. I can't even make head or tail out if it. A lot of it didn't make much sense at all. Just pure entertainment in the silliest and stupidest ways. I mean a good joke is fine but...... A lot of lame jokes becomes a waste of time. I don't think I will like my kids to watch any of those in the future. It will be great it is both entertaining and educational at the same time. Though not all like that but .... I never see any good cartoons on TV Channels anymore.

Today I am really surprised to be able to find so many of my favourite Old time cartoons I watched when I was a kid. I managed to compile a few. Enjoy. Maybe some of you may have watched the same thing before. ^^~~~

Little Audrey and Candies

This is a good cartoon to teach little kids how not to be too picky about food. ^^

Grampy: Christmas Comes But Once A Year, (1936)

Santa's Surprise (1947)Merry Stereotypical Christmas Little Audrey

Nice kids. Do u see any kids being so considerate now? :P

Classic Christmas Cartoon. Pluto's Christmas Tree. 1952.

Cute little furry tails!!

Somewhere in Dreamland - 1936

One of my favourites must watch during Christmas seasons. I remembered long time ago my brother and I will both wake up early in the morning turn on the tv to watch this cartoon. We were so into the Dreamland fantasy. The best thing is when the cartoon finished our branch is ready too ! Christmas has always been a very joyful season for me. The big tall pretty Christmas tree in the living room with lots of present beneath the tree. Lots and lots of good things to eat. Somehow there are always tons of chocolates lying around the house. Thanks Mum and Dad I got a really happy childhood.

Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer (1944/1948)

The Night Before Christmas (1968) Pt 1

The Night Before Christmas (1968) Pt 2

The Night Before Christmas (1968) Pt 3

This is a very enjoyable cartoon for the family. Hope can spread some joys and happiness to everyone.

Christmas is very near! I can't wait to go home.

Waves in Kuala Terengganu

Don't be deceived by such calm slow rolling waves. There are deeper currents and unknowns beneath the sea surface. Before we came here we were warned seriously by our elders not to go near the water. I am glad we never did. We just stood afar and enjoy the view especially during this monsoon seasons. The tides are really high.

DO NOT GO INTO THE SEA WHEN U are in Kuala Terengganu. It is very Dangerous.

News Article:

Body of fifth drowning victim recovered

2010/12/13

KUALA TERENGGANU: The last victim in Friday's drowning incident at Pantai Pandak Chendering was found 18km from the beach at 10.30am yesterday.
Vijaykumar and four others -- S. Kumudha, 28, her siblings Raymond, 26 and Roshini, 16, along with their friend, S. Mogan, 21, drowned in the incident, while another friend, M. Madhavi, 19, survived when she managed to cling to a rock.

This is a really sad incident. According to the local news, 15 people died in last 3 months!!! This is really a big news. Our hospital is located right beside the beach and 1 mins walk down into the sea. Quite ionic to build the hospital right beside a dangerous seaside. Just pray no more victims will be surfacing from the sea again. I strongly recommend the government to take some actions about this. For such a long stretch of sea coast, I only observed very few notices on the beach warning people off. Sigh............

Christmas Is around the Corner: Ever-green Xmas Songs.

Hello People!! Christmas season is here and I just can't felt feeling all excited about it. Here is to share some of my favourite Xmas songs. ^^~~

Last Christmas by Wham!

This will forever be my favourite Xmas song.

All I want for Xmas is my 2 front teeth.

I never heard of this song till my friend told me just now. How cute! This brought back the memory when I was 6 and I too lost my 2 front tooth. :P

Christmas Song - Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer

Cute Rudolph!! Wish I can give it a hug!!

Santa Baby

Wow! Just found a really sexy version of Santa Baby by Pussycat Dolls. I guess this is video will set fire to warm up the whole snowy town. Haha

Alright....time for some Xmas shopping!!!

I can't wait for Xmas!

The New Place

Hello people I am back. Thanks to the really cold weather and insomnia I am back into the blogging world for a little while. Been putting off writing about my new place for months and months till it is almost reaching the next year. 27 more days to go!

Currently I am residing temporarily in this place :

Half of the year is hot like hell and half of the year it is cold and wet. Right now I am enjoying the monsoon. Though I like the cool weather but my clothes won't dry and my room is growing fungus soon!!

For those who can't read Chinese: this is Kuala Terengganu China Town. It is out of the rural and at the corner of the country. Right now we are enjoying the rainy Monsoon season.

Monsoon cup is on and the city is alive with lots of people.

Me beside my window when I first got here. Shh....... Let me tell you a secret: My land lady has horrible taste. Her curtains and cushion covers are in a horrible hideous colour that I can't even describe. I rush out to the stores to get some plain new olds and to my utmost horror.................................. There is nothing to be bought!!

Campus view. This was taken when the days were bright and grass are turning yellow as not a single drop of rain for weeks and weeks. Now after some so called 'landscaping' the place looks so much nicer with a fountain and lots of greeneries.

Me looks bright and sunny and a bit too skinny on the first day of the semester. Guess I was kind of excited and looking forward to the new semester.

An Apple a day keeps the Doctor away. You know what to put on the pillow when your husband annoys you. :P

Quote of the day: If Accident is a Disease. Education is the Vaccine.

Funny quote isn't it? I guess theoretically it is right but practically??? Everyone knows that driving fast and over the speed limit is bad. But people still do it because they never thought that accident or any bad things will ever happen to then. Same as smoking.

ANTI SMOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Early birds get to see the sun rising from the sea.

Me on the beach.
Me in front of the Crystal Mosque.

Me standing at the gate of China Town. Hurrah to the CHinese!!! You can go anywhere around e globe and you are sure to find a China town there for sure. ^^~

Last but not least show you all a little pic of me in the Crystal Mosque!!!!

Alright out of respect for the religion I wore the scarf to enter it. Inside is amazing! The huge crystals hanging from the ceilings are shining brightly under the evening light.

My favorite old lady : Miss Marple

Miss Marple



Miss Marple is becoming my top favourite old lady in the world. She don't move as speedily as Sherlock Holmes with the brilliant partner Dr Watson but I especially love the way of her solving and revealing a crime over a cup of afternoon tea.

Who is Miss Marple? A fictional character by Agatha Christie. She is called Jane Marple usually referred to as Miss Marple. An elderly spinster ( old maid) who lives in the village of St. Mary Mead and is sort of a amateur detective. She is a very stereotype old English lady of around 60-70 years old. Dressed in tweed, cardigans and a little hat and busying knitting or reading. She is such a cute adorable old lady from the outside but sharp logical mind on the inside. She got such great understanding of human nature with all its weaknesses, strengths, quirks and foibles. In the detective story tradition, she often embarrasses the local "professional" police by solving mysteries that have them stumped.


It is such a great joy to curl up on the bed and enjoy a good tv drama of Miss Marple or the Novels. I am planning to get some Miss Marple books this Christmas. ^^~~ Can't wait to get to the bookstores. One of the horrible things living in the rural country side is you can't get the things you want easily. It is first time in my life I can say:" I have all the money but there is nothing to buy!" Really. Sometimes this can seriously get on the nerve and make life very stressful and unhappy. You just wanna get a simple thing that can be bought in any store but here???????? Oh my. You can drive through the whole town search every single store and you may not even get a glimpse of it.

Miss Marple's sweet little cottage. I am afraid the picture below did not do full justice of the wonderful house.

Through some googling and surfing I stumbled upon a Miss Marple game. Kind of fun in a way if you are bored to death and nothing to do and with a good pair of sharp eyes. I strained and tired my eyes out trying to search for the tiny things in the pictures. I guess it will be what most people called a waste of time game. :P But I like it. It is kind of fun and the pictures are beautifully detailed and the game does follows the novel closely.

4.50 from Paddington is one of my favourite stories too. Miss Lucy is brilliant!

Ooh...I am sneezing the whole night. Weather here is really chilly and cold. My bed is so cold that I got to dry to use 2 blankets and resort to wearing jackets. And guess what ? I am freezing in Malaysia which is famous for its humidity and heat.