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    Wednesday, 7 January 2009

    Slow down your steps and rethink about your life.

    Recently a lot of things happened. Happy things and unhappy things. Some of it really tired me out and I am so stretched out that I am like a rubber band being pulled to maximum and snapping soon.

    I have always applied to this Tzu Ji: Jing Si Aphorism and would like to share with everyone. It serve as a reminder in my life to remind me to be thankful of what I have. I am so rich compare to the people around the world that are suffering. This year a lot of natural disasters happened. We should all be more aware of this. I usually don't really dare to watch too much about China earth quake and Marmar Cyclone and floods. I will be sobbing mad. Here everyone can do something by being more thankful and not so wasteful.

    Be content. Think not what we don't have, LV bags, Chanel perfumes but what we have. Families and friends, pets and everything you have now. Learn to love them more and cherish them.

    Beauty of humanity is honesty and faith. How I totally agrees. But some times it is so hard to do when you want to lie your way out of certain tight situations. By lying to robbers that you don't have money and have faith you will be saved and they will let you go? Mmm...I think do not lie to hurt and harm people. Have faith in people around you.

    Yes. Keep you and my minds clear , simple, broad, pure. Life will be beautiful. Some times everything is so simple but our minds are so complicated and just refuse to believe that there is really nothing. And just keep insisting there is something untill you force everyone to admit you are right. Put down your dignity and face, fight until like that what do you gain?

    This is tough especially towards people that has been harming you and hurting you. I love all beings on Earth. I try not to cultivate any hatred against anyone even those who never treat me well. They are suffering a lot alreay by harming and hurting me. I always believe in karma. What ever bad things they have done it will go back to them. If not in this life, it will be next life.

    Disgruntlement in human beings. Yes...there are some I have seen. So unhappy about anything and everything in this world and everyone around them. Just let it go and be happy with life.

    Broaden our heart broaden our heart. Yes. My heart is broaden. I am not affected by anything. Life is beautiful and I am enjoying mine to the fullest.

    Friction between people is inevitable, we must all learn how to quell negative emotions at the right moment. This is tough. How do you know when is the right moment? I know I have lots of weak points I will try to learn and interect with people. I grew up in such a protected environment. Everyone is nice to me, pamper me, love me even more than my own parents. Now I grew up and face the world, I realize I have been too pampered. I do not know a lot of things. these few years I slowly learn how to do some housework and cook. I also learn how to deal with negative people. It is not like the fight and kiss and make up be friends like kids anymore.
    Miss my mum and dad. They are always busy and always not around. But when ever I need them they are there for me 100%. I am so grateful to have my parents. They are the most loving, understanding parents in the world. I am really touched when I find out my mum love me more than her life. She trully do.

    Last year both my mum and I were in the car. She was driving and suddenly the cars in front stopped. it was an emergency brake. We almost hit on to the car in front too on a rainy day. At that moment my mum brakes, she also moved her body towards me ( who is at passenger seat beside her) and she put out her hand tried to cover me and protect me. At that moment I almost cried. Even in emergency or accident I know my mum love me so much. She will even give her own life for mine. Love you, Mum.

    I was a really stupid, naive person. I think it is really time I grew up and be responsible for my own life. I can not depend on anyone but myself. The world is full of so many different types of people. Some simply just have a very stone head some got soft ears. Stone head ( mandarin) meaning: Stubbron and hard as rock. Die also will not change their opinoun even when they are 100% wrong. Maybe due to their ignorance and pride. Refuse to admit they are wrong. Soft ears ( direct translation from mandarin): people whose ears are s0 soft that they listen to everything everyone say and have no opinoun of their own. There are so much for me to learn.
    Greed. Are u greedy? ^^~ For me, maybe I am a little bit greedy when come to foods that I love to eat. Thats why I am fat. Some people are so greedy for money and fame and will do anything for it. I never will. Maybe my family provided me with sufficient fund or give me what everyone have I never feel I am poor. I always have a lot to spend and use. I am feel so thankful to my parents. Thats why I am never greedy about money. Instead I am always very generous with money. In secondary school I am almost a "loan shark". Of cos that time don't even know u can collect interest. People just treat me meals or buy me little gifts. Luckily everyone return me all the money.
    Tiffany now throwing away all the rubbish in the house and clearing away unused items. Clear away stuff and clasters bring in good luck and fresh air.

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